Humility

Humility and the Rosary: A Path to Spiritual Growth

Humility did not arrive quietly in my life. Instead, it unfolded through a long season of struggle, obedience, and surrender—especially in my work. For over five years, I faced daily challenges under authority that often-made things difficult. I found myself crying out to God in prayer, asking for relief, understanding, or simply the strength to get through another day.

It was in these moments that I began to learn what humility truly means. God showed me that humility and obedience are closely linked; He was asking me to do my work faithfully, even when I felt unseen, overworked, or misunderstood. Day by day, as I surrendered my pride, my experience, and my knowledge, I became quieter—a watcher, learning to see God’s presence in every circumstance.

All glory for every task, every moment of perseverance, belonged to God. Even as the workload increased and I took on the burdens of others, I realized that God was the one carrying me through. He protected my heart from hurtfulness and gave me strength when I had none. These actions were invisible, divine, and so real that words can barely do them justice. Looking back, I see the Holy Spirit was shaping me to rely on Him, not myself.

Why is Humility Important?

Humility is not simply a virtue to admire from afar; it’s the soil where spiritual growth takes root. Through my own challenges, I discovered that humility opens the door to inner peace, deeper faith, and a more intimate relationship with God.

When I recognized my limitations and brought them to God—sometimes through tears—He met me with grace and strength. Pride, on the other hand, crept in whenever I thought I could control outcomes or handle everything on my own. In those moments, God gently reminded me to rely on Him, not myself.

Humility gave me the courage to reflect honestly on both my strengths and weaknesses. It wasn’t about thinking less of myself, but about seeing myself as God sees me—loved, guided, and dependent on Him for every breath.

Mary's Source of Strength

Mary’s example has become even more meaningful to me through my own journey. She lived her life in total obedience to God’s will, beginning with her “fiat”—“Let it be done to me according to your word.” Like Mary, I learned that true strength comes from surrendering to God, even when faced with uncertainty, fear, or overwhelming responsibility.

Her humility gave her the courage to serve, to trust, and to endure. As I tried to follow her example, especially in my workplace struggles, I realized that real strength is found in letting go of my own plans and trusting God to work through me.

Strengths and Weaknesses

One of humility’s greatest gifts is the freedom to acknowledge both our strengths and our weaknesses. There were times when pride tempted me to rely solely on my experience or knowledge, shutting out God and others. But humility invited me to admit when I needed help, to ask for guidance, and to accept that I don’t have all the answers.

This process is ongoing. Sometimes I still stumble, but I now see that every weakness is an opportunity for God’s strength to shine through.

Damaging Effects of Pride

Unchecked pride can create barriers between ourselves and others, leading to isolation, misunderstanding, and missed opportunities for growth. In my own journey, I saw how pride could cause hurt—both to myself and to those around me—by fueling resentment, comparison, or the need for recognition.

Humility, by contrast, softened my heart and helped me build bridges rather than walls. It taught me to listen, to forgive, and to value the contributions of others.

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Humility in Personal Growth

Humility is not a one-time achievement; it’s a process of continuous learning.
Here’s how it has shaped my personal growth:

Openness to Learning: Admitting I don’t have all the answers has made me receptive to new ideas and God’s guidance.

• Compassion and Empathy: Humility has helped me appreciate others’ journeys and support them with genuine care.
• Letting Go of Ego: Each day, I try to let go of the need for recognition, finding peace in serving quietly.
• Inner Peace: Humility frees me from the exhausting habit of comparison, allowing me to rest in God’s love and purpose.
• Strengthening Relationships: By listening well and valuing others, I’ve seen my relationships grow deeper and more meaningful.
• Aligning with Higher Principles: Practicing humility is my way of saying “yes” to God’s will, just as Mary did.
• Encouraging Service: I’ve learned that even the simplest acts of service—at home, at work, or in my community—are opportunities to grow closer to God.

📿 New! Rosary Meditation on the Virtue of Humility

The Rosary has become a quiet path to spiritual strength for me, especially as I meditate on the humility of Mary and Jesus. These mysteries remind me that true greatness comes from surrender, not self-importance. Each prayer is an invitation to open the door to Christ within, letting humility transform my heart from the inside out.

👉 Read Rosary Meditation on the Virtue of Humility »

Where to Start to Cultivate Humility in Spiritual Practice

My journey with humility continues every day. I hope these reflections encourage you to see your own struggles as opportunities for growth and to trust that God is working in you, often in ways that words cannot fully describe. All glory belongs to Him.

Spiritual Meditation
Spiritual Exercises
Spiritual Journaling
Pray the Rosary
Visit the Stations of the Cross